Ques

It was just 'Silence'.


Never write it down, never say it to anyone. Live it no matter what consequence you face.


Forget the above. There were three questions 'might' have occurred at some part of our lives. Talking about genetically genuine personalities who thinks not only personally but for all.


1. What have we done to the society in return to which it has given us so much?


2. What was your dreams, has it been compromised for things which won't last forever?


3. Are we loving the way we live, then see yourself next year. If there is no change then you might have lived the loved life

Two words

I ain't going to set or say things straight. It's always makes sense when you really know the difference between need and want.

Quarter to the century and halfway in ur life. What have you always followed? Lending your ears to others and don't want to accept the fact that you are changing and growing or breaking yourself to pulp feeling that something has changed you and want to go back to normal. 

Our way of life revolves around these two words 'need' and 'want'.

If I am asked to choose better life or luxurious life. I will go for the later. As a matter of fact everyone chooses later. We don't think it's needed to us but we want it. Going towards something other than our needs will eventually break our inner things and bring change.

Accepting the change and not regretting to live with it, is what everyone cannot follow. In the middle of your wants, you might feel the need of something and come back, losing yourself completely and blame the world around your mistakes.

Never break yourself for the decisions you make. understand what you need in your life. Never live for someone who is not going to stay with you till your last days. Be wise and dont make a fool of yourself. It's just a need that we always wanted in our lives.

Love it and leave with it.

All we run for

It's easy said then to follow

'Compromise' 'Complication' 'Commitment', from the later to the start it all revolves around one after another.

Why do we search things when we have it already within us : 'happiness'. It's all we need and it's all we run for. Yeah I am judged wrong here. 'Money' 'luxury' 'relationship' what else u name it.. these are the factors that bring happiness.

I don't want to write paragraphs defining what happiness really means. I just want to put it this way.

When you start running behind a thing it will keep u pulling towards it and never lets you go. It's just the same with all external things that gets stapled and removed as we grow. Just don't lose it and let not others lose it.

Make ur family happy !

It's happening

U live in a world where trust fades away with promises that u can't keep. Same trust builds up with promises that boasts better than the previous ones and you fall into that pit where you cannot come out once it fails again.  

Why do we have to fall and live for things which is not going to be static as it will be at the early days. We want our presence to be felt at very touch, so we start making promises to make them feel protected, loved, cared and call it in the name of the beautiful thing which ever happens between people.

Course of action takes place at regular intervals. Some break it and some stay for long to bind things up and continue. What if it fails Everytime. By the time u stand up you will realise that u are bound up with responsibilities, for society sake live the rest of your life stitching things that are torn.

The other way around, never one accepts someone being honest. So what choice do they have again 'Making promises that they can't keep'.

To the point,

When broke, u tend to loose up your things. All that you keep close is your fear. Lying is the best option you will have to shield you off from another promise. Crying alone is the better friend. False judgement will be your ally. 

Why do u people say, you have grown old. It's not a monologue, it's a way of saying that you have lived to know what you exactly need in your life and make further judgement for your future. Until then don't make promises that will hurt someone.

Do know what you need in your life and live accordingly. If your choice of life is not welcomed, believe me it's a free world and it's not hard to find someone with your taste. 

Do trust in someone who believes in him or her. Do not find shelter in someone's confidence or promise and you eventually know the results.

Search for a reason

Quite an episode of life where you will go through that loneliness even if your are amongst the group. And that Why question keeps you occupied with thoughts making others feel that you are an introvert.

Never Judge a person by his appearance, u may not know what good he can do to this world. Coming to the loneliness and thinking. There are three kinds of people whom we see in life.

'one who lives a life without a reason'
'one who tries to live someone's idea'
Other 'one who tries to find a purpose of living this life'

The last one is everyone talks about, it's not the purpose to boast the growth of your personal life but to keep  thinking forward  about the growth of the sorroundings. A small idea can bring a rapid change to this society.

Everyone can be a part of this change, there is always a connection to things with our acts.   Before we can be a part of the solution, we need to make sure we are not a part of the problem! 


My next post will be how things are connected with our acts.

It's time

Never we lived in a world where everything we consider is not treated equal.

Have you ever cared about an animal, tree being naked all time? we wouldn't have. Is it nature that human beings tend to give more importance to things which are protected from our sights or is it the society made us look the way we are looking at things right now.

Is it just the say that we are living in 21st century? And live the ancient age.Her independence is just fifty years old and she was bought to the light of education very recently, yet her achievements are so grt that the whole world looks at them as role models. Yet some say "they are women". Accept the reality that she is part of things that we do in this world.

Everyone wants to live their choice. If ignored there may be many reasons behind that rejection. Accept it and move on. There can be always her behind your success even if it ends in a way that we least expect. Taking away her life or hurting her is not the solution.

Her is beautiful. We came from her womb. We mean no disgrace to her. Her should be treated and seen like the way we see the one who carried us in her womb. If that's the case there will be no discrimination against one gender.

So let them live their life. It's all happiness humans deserve.

Chance

Besides all we have got in our life, we always tend to complain about the things we don't possess.

Every human has a problem but we always immerse ourselves so deep, forgetting about the purpose of our lives here.  We are given a chance to live outside the population of 650 million people who are disabled. Is it not the greatest gift we possess?

Anyone can do so little about it, thats all the one liner we always hear about, but for one time why shouldn't we think social rather than being self. A small activity of yours may bring a great change to the society and inspire many to follow.

Even if we don't do anything back to this world which has given us life. We should be non discriminatory,  respectful and have to treat everyone equal. The opposite of the three are the main causes of problem in today's  world.

Problem is something which surrounds us till our dying day. Let it not take your little dreams. Be a reason for someone's happiness and the problems will be fading away from our lives.    

Blessed we are with the fortune of a chance. Live it.

Her The Future

The world will be hers

Towards a safer world sees the progressive growth of women in very things.

'She is a girl!' (stereotype) that's where the dreams and space of her is taken away. We all were grown up by a women who always feel happy about the empowerment of them, eventhough most of that generation were confined to kitchens.

I would like to be a feminist because I care for those who were behind my success at very point of time. Chauvinistic?? It was years back .. we should be feminist inorder to fight for the very right, women are fighting for the years.

They are everywhere competing equally with men. I see 54 women contingents representing my country for Rio Olympics. There are women who hold key portfolios in PMs office, chief ministers, bureaucrats and Army officers. I can say my country can be role model for women out there who wants to live a life which is independent.

Let them not be behind our success, let them taste it. Let us give them the safety they need. Let the stereotypes fade away. Wish this world accepts what they truly are. 'Guides to our lives'.

Thank every women who was there in our life at some point of time and wish all happy future ahead.

Purpose?

After my first post, I am clueless what to be penned down for the next until I saw a bunch of kids in my city who are helpless selling toys near traffic signals to survive their day.

Everyone has a dream in their lives. Reasons beyond those are listless. Is it the only purpose that we live in this world?

We are here to make this world a better place for the next to come. Many of us have forgotten our responsibilities while chasing to live a luxurious life. We need to understand the fact that we came empty handed to leave empty handed.

Why chose life to make it complicated? When we have a chance to bring our humanity inside us to serve all. Fulfilling once dream is considered an achievement for his lifetime, help others to achieve the same it will be considered an achievement for humanity.

Serving our society doesn't stop from providing education or giving a better life. There are far more responsibilities beyond that. The true purpose of life is not about fulfilling our dreams and there is more to it.

Change

Change is only constant

It's quite often people tend to change themself to suit the surroundings and forget the past to live their present. It's not a mistake by choice and thats how the world is.

An incident which bought me to write this,
A friend of mine who was badly hurt by things around him had to change himself to make his surroundings happy even though he has to go through many things implicitly.

Change for good and for people whom we love is really a thing to be appreciated. I saw many things changed around me over the days and bought me to the light of writing my own blog for a change.

Respect others and don't judge on them over their past. Every one is human, love them all as you love yourself.